I'M GOING TO BUY A LAND ROVER

 
 

Have you seen this commercial?  I LOVE IT!!  The young couple is standing on a porch with their wedding party and it is POURING rain.  They've planned a ceremony on a picture perfect mountaintop and it looks like it's NOT going to happen.

She is in despair and he is thinking! (He is determined to marry the love of his life on this day.)  Suddenly he grabs her hand and runs out into the deluge, the wedding party packs into the Land Rover and they drive up the perilous mountain path.  On top of the mountain they are married in spite of the wind and rain, mud and soggy clothes.  He kisses his bride and she looks at him adoringly and laughs.  IT IS GREAT!!

 

So...you ask, what's so great about a wedding day disaster???

 

I love this groom for taking charge!  I love this bride for letting him!

 

I talk to MANY, MANY young and old couples, married and those just thinking about it.  And folks, we have a trend.  (It's not new, it's not a fad, it's very obvious to those who watch such things, and it is extremely worrisome.)

 

It goes like this:  We women KNOW what we WANT,  KNOW when we want it, KNOW how to make it happen and will settle for NOTHING LESS.  And BUDDY, you better sit down and watch it work. AND you best be happy about it or you'll hear from us as well.

 

We women insist on BEING in charge because we are RIGHT!  About pretty much....well, everything.

 

You know I'm right...I AM WOMAN!

 

And here it is......the wedding plans did NOT materialize because of bad weather. ( Oops! The weather IS something we cannot control!)

 

At this point the bride (and we would commiserate with her) would have every right to fall in a heap of tears, call off the wedding, cuss at her groom, her mother and the caterer.

 

At this point the groom would (and we would ADMIRE him for this) sympathize with his bride, hold her tight, BEG her to marry him ANOTHER day,  stand there and TAKE all the verbal abuse she spits out.

 

BUT, alas the Land Rover bride and groom react in NONE of the usual ways.

 

HE TAKES CHARGE AND SHE LETS HIM.  And they have a wonderful wedding day memory.

 

It makes me smile.

 

I see in this commercial the perfect picture of marital bliss.  A man being a man and a woman loving him for it.  (I almost want to cry here!)

 

There are SO many things in our every day lives that would go much smoother if we could follow their example.  Think about all the minor household decisions that are made.  Must we women always need to tell the men exactly what to do, when to do it and how?  Must men always need to follow along like a puppy in order to be considered a good husband?

 

We've been doing this marriage thing backwards since the Garden of Eden....and if I read it correctly (Hebrew translation) God predicted that is exactly what would happen.  It is the result of sin.

 

Yep, that's it ...SIN!   Time to repent folks.  Just look at that smiling, deliriously happy bride before you try to  defend yourself.

 

My challenge:

 

  Ladies, let him take charge, even if it will cost more or take more time. Laugh it off, most things we get so uptight about aren't going to matter a hill of beans in view of eternity or next year!

 

Men, take charge once in a while, she'll love you for it.  In fact, that is REALLY what she wants. When she gets used to it she'll recognize the relief and freedom it gives her.

 

Everybody ends up SMILING.

 

Now...I'm going to go out and buy a LAND ROVER!